Ibra Kadabra

World food program + Zlatan Ibrahimovic is true.

Ibra is not the first celeb to donate money and a face to what the media usually calls the fight against poverty. My brother once told me about an article about Bill and Melinda Gates, debating the gigantic amounts of money they had “given up for a good cause.” The journalist wrote that “this is exactly how the world should look like.” My brother asked – is it really?

Charity is made possible through the fact that some people have very much more than others. As nice as it sounds of Zlatan to give away some million dollars, fact is that he has some million dollars to give.

This is truly confusing.

While watching the video below, I would also like to focus on the quote:

“When you think of me, think of them.”

On a bus in Tanzania, I once got asked a question about Zlatan Ibrahimovic. Someone heard Sweden and thought of this one football player.

Why?

Stay confused!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LbokktaQuM

Sustainable Consumption?

Capitalism is all around us. As we do know some good side of it, we more and more get to know the bad ones. Buying jeans and tank-tops that get worn out after some months no longer gives us pure excitement. There are new feelings inside of us. Feelings of guilt and worry. Pictures of collapsing factories and melting ice flashes through our brains. So, we have started asking us the question:

Can we really have it all?

Trying to make our dreams about consumption that doesn’t do damage to the world and it’s inhabitants, words such as organic and fair trade has entered our stores. If we buy this – then maybe we can keep on buying, and still be good people! Maybe even better people than we are if we decide that we don’t need that special müsli.

But are we, really?

Slavoj Žižek discusses the “delusion of green capitalism” and helps us to get confused. 

“You can remain just the consumerist because your altruistic solidarity with nature and the poor is included into the price.”

So by buying, we can be nice and cosy. But how about those resources – didn’t someone say they would end? Is this sufficient? Or do we need a space for action that actually has nothing, what-so-ever, to do with business and consumption?

Get even more confused by giving some minutes to this worth-watching video!

Once in a life-time?

Dear readers

Today, on the 27:th of January 2015, it is 70 years since the prisoners in Auschwitz was freed. 70 years since the pain and suffering, the slaughtering, the complete ignorance of human value came to happen.

We are told that this was a result of pure evil, that this was complete madness and that it can never happen again.

Let’s get confused.

I look back and read the story of the psychologist and writer Hédi Fried. At the age of nineteen she got deported to Auschwitz together with her family. Hédi had a happy childhood in Northern Romania. In 1940, the Nürnberg-laws prevented her family and all other Jews from having any income. The family got poor, but Hédi says that they adjusted and could live a normal life. Then, in the spring of 1944, the Jews were forced to wear the yellow star. Shortly afterwards, they were moved to ghettos and then to concentration camps.

Hédi and her family came to Auschwitz, and from the train they got pushed down on the so called selection ramp. As women and men were parted, Hédi had no chance to say goodbye to her father. Shortly afterwards, Josef Mengele stood before Hédi. He directed Hédi and her sister in one way – and their mother in another. Hédis mother begged for understanding.
– We are a family. They are my children, we want to be together.
– Yes, yes, you will go with a car, you’ll see them later, Mengele replied.
When Hédis mother begged for water, Josef Mengele replied that she would get coffee soon.
The ninety-year-old Hédi tells us that “coffee” meant the gas coming out of the taps in the ceiling.

Hédi and her sister were taken to another area, where they got their bodies and heads shaved. After an ice-cold shower they sat down to wait for their mother. Many prisoners sat beside them, waiting for parents, younger siblings and other loved ones. Wondering when they would come, a girl told them:

– Are you stupid? Do you see the chimney over there? There, over there, your parents and siblings are burning.

Hédi and her sister were sent to many different camps, until they finally got freed and came to Sweden with help from the Red Cross.

In her self biography Hédi writes that she thought that the world had learned it’s lesson after the Holocaust. But then Rwanda happened, and Balkan, and today we see both racism and antisemitism.

Today, Hédi writes, I am scared again.

Forgetting the Holocaust means forgetting the unbelievable suffering and pain brought to millions of people. Forgetting means to not learn from the past. Forgetting means that what has happened can happen again.

“I tell my stories, so that young people will listen and understand that when you make a difference between people and people, in the end it will lead to a Holocaust.”

As I am writing this, a new day is starting. Today, 70 years ago, was the first day the prisoners of Auschwitz woke up free. They were survivors, but they had – or have – scars that time is unable to heal.

But we, us human beings, can prevent new scars from ever being made.

Let’s open our eyes. Let’s see the threat around us – and the threat is not other people, religions or cultures. The threat is fear, discrimination and hate.

And we have to fight this threat with everything we’ve got.

Because we know what will happen if we don’t.

Gendermania

In this awesome video Ellen DeGeneres takes on a lot of stereotypes about gender. Last year my niece wished for a wooden toy washing machine and without thinking about it I bought her that manifestation of gender roles. I desperately needed to get more confused…

Children are raised from early on to fit into specific roles society assigns to them. Clothes are pink or blue, toys are barbies or cars and costumes are princess dresses or cowboys. All those things are so normalized around us, that sometimes we do not even question them anymore.

Let’s confuse them!

Simple sex

The update has been a bit less frequent, in this new year, but we did promise ourselves to be less efficient – less Made in Bangladesh (see earlier post) – from now on.

Nevertheless, confusion is important.

One extremely confusing subject, that many people claim to be natural and simple, is sex.

So, what do people say about the subject?

– You shouldn’t do it at all.

– You should wait until your married.

– You should have figured out how it all works at the age of sixteen.

– If you’re a boy you should have heaps of sex partners and if you are a girl you should have a single one.

– You should have sex with someone of the opposite sex and it should happen by a penis penetrating a vagina.

Hm. Sex is everything but simple. We need to get that, and we need to talk about our confusion. We need to question the traditional views on what sex is, who we should have it with, when and how.

Because for long, sex has been rule-based, simplyfied baseball. Now it needs to be… pizza.

More on confusing sex (or baseball and pizza) in the Ted Talk below!

How far can we see?

We’re furious about killings in the heart of the western world. Can we extend our fury to the whole world?

Well worth a read:

“The scale, intensity, and manner of the solidarity that we are seeing for the victims of the Paris killings, encouraging as it may be, indicates how easy it is in Western societies to focus on radical Islamism as the real, or the only, enemy. This focus is part of the consensus about mournable bodies, and it often keeps us from paying proper attention to other, ongoing, instances of horrific carnage around the world: abductions and killings in Mexico, hundreds of children (and more than a dozen journalists) killed in Gaza by Israel last year, internecine massacres in the Central African Republic, and so on…”

“We may not be able to attend to each outrage in every corner of the world, but we should at least pause to consider how it is that mainstream opinion so quickly decides that certain violent deaths are more meaningful, and more worthy of commemoration, than others.”

“France is in sorrow today, and will be for many weeks come. We mourn with France. We ought to. But it is also true that violence from “our” side continues unabated. By this time next month, in all likelihood, many more “young men of military age” and many others, neither young nor male, will have been killed by U.S. drone strikes in Pakistan and elsewhere. If past strikes are anything to go by, many of these people will be innocent of wrongdoing. Their deaths will be considered as natural and incontestable…“

http://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/unmournable-bodies

Good, bad and actual human beings

The new year has only just started – but our promise to stay confused is already being challenged. Reading the news about the terrorist attacks in Paris makes us feel that we now – maybe more than ever – need to hold on tight to the promise.

By stereotyping and painting a picture of “the terrorist” we are creating a world where people are divided into good and bad. But doesn’t that belong in fairytales?

On Tuesday this week, around 24 hours before the attack in Paris, another attack was carried out in Colorado, in the US. “A balding white man in his 40s” placed a bomb outside of the NAACP (National association for the advancement of colored people) office. Luckily nobody got hurt. The insightful Jamilah Lemieux, senior digital editor at the African American magazine Ebony tweeted:

“Today’s news will assert that a crazy white outlier attempted to bomb an NAACP office, and that Islam carried out a terror attack in Paris.”

And that is pretty much the core of the problem about how we talk about violence. We create stereotypes about people who do bad things, and when they don’t fit the reality (they don’t) we call the people who committed the deeds completely crazy.

We neeeeed to change this, we have to be smarter than accepting that evil looks like a man with a dark beard.

At least if we feel like actually having a world where people don’t kill each other because they think that the other side is evil.

And there is hope. When the hostage situation took place in Australia, the amazingly confused Rachel Jacobs realized the danger of increasing Islamophobia as she saw a Muslim woman remove her hijab on the train. She then created the hash tag “I’ll ride with you”, making sure that hundreds of thousands of people showed their resistance to stereotypes and support for fellow human beings.

And it is in this way we need to handle the world today. Because there are serious threats to the confusion of human beings.

The following is an excerpt from a Reuters article:

“This bloodbath proves wrong those who laughed or ignored the fears of so many people about a looming danger of Islamism”, said Alexander Gauland, a regional AfD leader. “This gives new clout to PEGIDA demands.”

PEGIDA – Patriotic Europeans Against the Islamisation of the West – has been mobilizing people to join their weekly manifestations in the German city of Dresden and already found a couple of imitators across Germany. This week the number hit an all time record of 18.000 people and next week it’ll be sadly even more. After the attack in Paris, their Facebook page read:

“The Islamists, against whom PEGIDA has been warning over the last 12 weeks, showed in France today that they are not capable of (practicing) democracy but instead see violence and death as the solution.”

A quick google search shows that Muslim leaders from Egypt, Iran, Australia and other countries all over the world has condemned the deed, saying “This is not what Islam does.”

Now if we would like to raise our voice about these issues, we have to do it carefully and question if re-posting caricatures, which hurt a lot of people, is the most sensible act to make peace and end seperation. Basically, we have the right to say everything but in order to meet, communicate and share peacefully, we have to talk with empathy and see the other persons needs, next to ours.

Let’s not fall into the trap of stereotypes and hate. We sure know that is not a good place to be. Let’s get rid of simple truths and create a world without extremism and violence. Let’s (well, I guess that if anything is a bit extreme, but maybe we could try it) talk. To each other. And listen too.

Aaaand, amazing human beings out there, let’s stay confused!

http://mic.com/articles/107926/one-tweet-perfectly-sums-up-the-big-problem-with-how-we-talk-about-terrorism?utm_source=policymicTBLR&utm_medium=main&utm_campaign=social

http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-30479306

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2015-01-07/islamic-leaders-condemn-paris-attack-some-warn-against-backlash.html